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Sex in Tarot: A Working Girl’s Take
Alright, sweetheart, let’s dive back into the deliciously naughty side of tarot. A few years ago (since updated), I put together my top 8 tarot cards for sex, and it stirred up quite the buzz. Some students blushed, others giggled, and a few leaned in a little closer—curious as ever. And wouldn’t you know, the conversation kept expanding. So here we are with Sex in Tarot, exploring even more cards that tease, tantalise, and titillate.
Let’s start with a little nod to Austin, who suggested I include The Ace of Cups. He’s spot on, and trust me, it fits right in with this sultry line-up. Let’s break it down, card by card.
“I’m surprised there’s no mention of the ace of cups! To me, that is a very gushy, feminine, sexual card and even symbolic of a vagina in the same way that the ace of wands is phallic. I think it can represent the more spiritual and emotional side of sex.”

1. Ace of Cups
Austin nailed it—this card is feminine, sexual, and all about emotional and physical intimacy.
Oh, sweetheart, the Ace of Cups is the essence of feminine sexuality. Picture an overflowing chalice—a symbol of sensual pleasure, emotional release, and pure physical delight. This card is all about the opening, the invitation, the fluidity of connection. It’s the card of a woman who fully embraces her body and desires, unapologetically enjoying every part of the experience.
She’s deeply spiritual but never detached from her physical side. She adores the textures, the tastes, the sensations of sex. Think of her as someone who doesn’t just kiss but devours, letting the heat of the moment consume her. She’s not one to give herself to just anyone, though; her partner must match her passion and emotional intensity. And those fluids? Oh, they’re central to her pleasure—kissing, sweat, and everything else. When this card shows up, expect intimacy that’s wet, wild, and unapologetically erotic.

2. The Sun
Now this is the card of pure, uninhibited joy. The child on the horse? That’s not about literal children—it’s about the carefree bliss of giving yourself entirely to the moment. The Sun is the joy of sex, the laughter, and the vulnerability that comes from being truly safe and open with someone.
This card radiates orgasmic energy, not just physical but emotional. It’s the warmth of a long, slow morning in bed, skin on skin, basking in each other’s glow. And that red banner? It’s a warning and a celebration—a flag that says, “Watch out, I’m having the time of my life!” When this card appears, it’s a reminder that vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s the doorway to deeper pleasure and connection.

3. Strength
Oh, honey, Strength is where the primal meets the tender. This card isn’t about brute force; it’s about the soft, seductive power of confidence and control. She knows what she wants and how to get it, but she doesn’t chase. Instead, she lures, seduces, and lets her partner come willingly into her embrace.
This is the card of a woman who can unleash her wild side when the mood strikes. She’s the queen of the slow tease, the knowing glance, the touch that leaves her lover begging for more. But don’t mistake her for a pushover—she knows when to take the lead and when to let her partner roar. Her sexual energy is raw, animalistic, and completely irresistible.

4. The Magician
The Magician is the ultimate seducer. He—or she—has all the tools to craft an unforgettable experience, blending charm, creativity, and just the right amount of mystery. This card is about hands that wander, lips that whisper, and a voice that draws you into their spell.
They’re the master of the subtle touch—a massage that turns into something more, a caress that lingers just a little too long. But they’re not just about physicality; they use their wit and words to build anticipation, creating a night that feels like magic. And that infinity sign? It’s not just above their head—it’s the energy they bring to the bedroom: endless, boundless, and utterly intoxicating.

5. Four of Swords
Darling, this card is a wake-up call. If Four of Swords shows up in a reading about your love life, it’s time to shake things up. Think routine sex, the same position, the same time, the same outcome. It’s not bad—it’s just boring.
This card begs you to get out of bed (or stay in it) and do something different. Try role-playing, toys, or even a bit of light BDSM. Reignite the passion by breaking the mold. This card isn’t about doom—it’s about the potential for rebirth. Take the sword below you, and use it to carve out a new, exciting path in your love life.

6. Eight of Swords
Tied up, blindfolded, and standing in water—this card screams surrender. But don’t worry, darling, it’s the good kind. The Eight of Swords speaks to the thrill of giving up control in a safe, consensual way. It’s the card of bondage, trust, and the kind of sexual exploration that lets you lose yourself in the moment.
The water at her feet isn’t just symbolic—it’s sexual. This is the kind of energy that leads to explosive, gushing pleasure. For some, it’s a string of orgasms; for others, it’s the emotional release that comes from being completely vulnerable. Either way, this card promises passion that’s as intense as it is unforgettable.

7. Three of Cups
The Three of Cups is all about playful, celebratory energy. Think threesomes, polyamory, or even a one-time fling that’s just for fun. This card isn’t about commitment; it’s about enjoying the moment and exploring connections without strings attached.
Each person brings something unique to the table—passion, creativity, or just a sense of adventure. It’s about letting go of judgment and embracing the joy of shared pleasure. This card reminds you that sex doesn’t always have to be serious; sometimes, it’s just about having a bloody good time.

8. Seven of Swords
This card is pure mischief. The Seven of Swords is the lover with a secret, sneaking around for a tryst or indulging in something a little taboo. It’s the thrill of the forbidden—the bad boy or girl who knows they shouldn’t but does it anyway.
This card might represent an affair, a secret kink, or even a visit to a private club. It’s the energy of someone who revels in the excitement of being just a little naughty. And for those who live it, it’s not about guilt but the sheer exhilaration of getting away with it.

9. Ace of pentacles
What’s happening through that gate? Let your imagination flow freely. So, we need to look at this from two perspectives. The first is the picture we see; the temptation leads you, and you want to explore. Exploration becomes intimate; for example, the hedge is the pubic hair, and the opening is the opening to the vagina and all the wonder it provides for the explorer. From a female’s perspective, it’s the same. Walk through the gate, and your penis awaits; in both examples, the coin is the reward.
The second perspective is somewhat ominous, and we look from within the picture, looking back out at us. In this case, enter through the gate and find a female egg ready to be fertilised. If baby-making is not on your agenda, either walk away or use protection. I recognised these two perspectives from the card's direction on the table. So, away from me (reversed) is scenario two, or as it looks in the picture, scenario one.

10. Two of Cups
The Two of Cups card exudes a beautiful energy that I have always been drawn to. This card depicts two individuals gazing lovingly into each other's eyes while exchanging cups. The symbolism in this card is profoundly romantic and represents the many positive aspects of a healthy relationship, such as emotional strength, love, bonding, romance, integrity, and a profound connection. What sets these individuals apart is their transparency and lack of secrets, making them more likely to share intimate moments with others.
For example, in the context of a Tarot reading, these individuals could easily discuss a profound sexual encounter and provide explicit details without discomfort. I once had a client who openly shared their sexual experiences with me during a reading. This was not out of the ordinary for them since they and their partner taught tantric sex to groups and were accustomed to being candid about their experiences.
The Bottom Line
Sex in tarot is as varied and complex as sex in real life. Each card carries its own unique energy, its own story, and its own invitation to explore the many facets of intimacy. Whether it’s about deep connection, wild passion, or playful experimentation, the cards reveal what you need to see—and maybe a little of what you secretly desire.
So, what’s your story, darling? Let’s find out together. Book a reading, and don’t be shy—mention Sex in Tarot in the comments. Confidentiality is key, as always.
Yours with a wicked smile,
A ❤️








Yours is the MOST interesting interpretation of the 8 of Swords I’ve seen in 20 years. This includes Crowley-Thoth and William Haigwood’s Counterculture Tarot.
I am often offended by the usual “privileged free-will” interpretation. I have natal 3rd house Jupiter-Saturn issues with that. Another interpretation I DO love is Tayannah Lee McQuillar’s Hoodoo Tarot with a rural crossroads familiar to us blues-rock historians.
I’m a long-time poster child for FetLife (recently outed as a Dom), and I posted a link to this page in my blog there.