Stuck in a Rut — Get Out of a Rut — Psychic Rut
A beautiful young woman came to see me for her annual yearly ‘top-up’—asking how her year will pan out, what she can expect, whether it’ll be a better year than last year—the normal new year resolution stuff; she was stuck in a rut wanted to get out of her rut.
After a couple of minutes her, stuck in a rut, problem bubbled to the surface. A few of years ago she decided she wanted to become a pilot. It all started ok, then last year it all went sour. She couldn’t break out and do what she needed to do. It wasn’t the money, plenty of that and she had money put aside; nothing worked, she couldn’t motivate herself to ‘get up and get going’.
Late last year she became desperate and frustrated. She was stuck in a rut because everything went against her. They weren’t big things, just things like her daily mundane stuff and crap in her job. She began to over think stupid little things which grew to be major setbacks.
We looked at what was holding her back and I suggested to start by making a list—the list consisted of buying butchers paper, pens etc so she could draw and create herself out of her mess. She was in such a state that she couldn’t even get herself off to the stationery shop to buy a few simple things.
The Change from being Stuck in a Rut
Then an interesting thing happened. Her partner asked her if she wanted to for a drive, he needed to go to Officeworks buy a few things. Viola. Action. How could she not buy what she needed.
That boosted her into action. She was out of being ‘stuck in a rut’, but she wanted more.
She came back yesterday wanting more of my ’tough love’ action.
I gave her a crash course in goal setting. It took 20 minutes and to see her light up was pure joy.
She got it. More? Click here.
Two things happened, both in her favour.
Are you stuck?
Can’t start that New Year’s goal or task (or perhaps, last year’s goal)?
Book in and in 1-hour we’ll look at the goal to see if it’s ‘you’ (it could be a part of a broader grand plan). Then I’ll give you you a step-by-step recipe to bake it so it’s the most delicious thing you’ll cook up all year.
Have a fantastic day…..
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