Jump to a conclusion. Damaging? Always.

We have changes.

And the changes start NOW.

No more ‘Call for Action’, you’re going to learn about perception, judgment and trust;  and how, by doing a little work, you can make life very easy for yourself.

You see, you have a choice, you can minimise your emotional pain and anguish by simply tuning in and creating a rule for yourself. I call it the 10 second rule. If I hear something or I’m a part of something that makes me angry, upset or frustrated I allow myself to be in that space for 10 seconds. No more.

It’s very easy.

About six months ago I added an extra action term to my daily purpose goal. That extra action word is protection, I’ve made a vow to protect. So, if someone needs my protection, they will get it. My daily mantra includes working for global abundance, harmony, love and, now, protection.

I spent the other weekend in Thredbo with friends, I took a friend with me and we were getting on really well, connecting, and having a great time. Let me call her SB to protect her identity.

Late on Saturday afternoon I had a call from my friend and client, “the Dentist”. I’ll tell you more about the Dentist in a minute.

My Friend (SB) was embarrassed, uncertain and angry for the next 2 days.

We talked in the car on the way home. I told her about the Dentist and my ‘protection’ vow and this is when she learnt the power of perception, judgement and trust (and jumping to conclusions).

It transformed her life.

SB got it! It was so easy for her. She is open and has a fantastic growth mindset.

You see, SB heard my phone conversation with the Dentist.

I can hear your objections:

• Don’t take the call,
• Think of SB before taking the call,
• Explain what the call was about as soon as I got off the phone.

Now the amount of emotional pain SB was going to feel depended on how much emotional capital she had invested in our relationship. In this case she hadn’t invested heavily, although there was some pain and that pain grew out of suspicion, doubt and a lack of trust.

But what if this had happened to me? Would I be any different?

I always use my 10 second rule and I ask myself “How can I make this better?”

The “Dentist” is just that. She is young, highly intelligent, committed, vital, professional and unfortunately, a month ago, became a victim of physical abuse in the place where she was living. Her rental place had become toxic, she needed help. I gave her shelter.

I would never hold anything against my lovely friend, SB, this was a misunderstanding. She feels great. I feel great. It’s Win/Win. And we have an even deeper connection with each other than before. We both learnt a couple of valuable lessons especially how well my 10 second rule can work for us.

Can I tell you a little of what I do?

I’m the intuitive reinventor. I discovered there’s no quick-fix pill for changing ourselves. You may have discovered that as well. So now I dig deep by reinventing “wrong-formula” values that lead us on the wrong journey. It’s a simple but unique technique. No one else does this.

If you’re in a situation where you may be jumping to a wrong conclusion, do something about it. Question yourself, talk to the person who’s troubling you. There may be no reason to jump to that conclusion and you may well save yourself two days of anguish.

Oh. And the Dentist? She’s doing great. She’s made her move and now she’s feeling safe and secure in her new home and loving her new dental practice in a small coastal town in NSW.

Remember, your life is one of perception, judgmental, trust. You have the power within you, to reinvent yourself.

Call for a one-on-consultation. You will walk out with insights into how you can re-invent your life, Intuitively!

Have an awesome day,

Andrew